Women In The Ministry 02/20/2011
Wives Submitting To Husbands and The Role of Women In The Ministry... Won't this be an interesting post! I was asked recently on whether woman can teach in church or not, so I decided to write out my thoughts. As with all my writings, thank you for reading, but I hope you'll do your own research with an open heart and mind. We should all be searching for the truth – not just the validation of our opinions. From my perspective, I believe we have multiple topics here that should be addressed individually: Ministry – This isn't some loft position, but rather, any act of service to another. Giving a glass of water to someone who's thirsty is ministry at that moment. Culture and Society – Some believe that certain parts of the Bible aren't relevant to us because of cultural differences. Is that what God said? Or did he say, Heaven and earth shall pass away, but my words shall not pass away. (Matthew 24:35) His Word trumps culture everywhere, every time. Wives Submitting To Husbands – Back in Genesis, God made man from the dust of the earth. Then he saw that it wasn't good idea for man to be alone, so he made women from the man and for the man. Whether you like how God did things isn't the point; That's how he did it. If you have a problem with that, you have a problem with God. Now, before you ladies roll your eyes and leave, please hear me out and read this entire post because you may not have heard what I'm about to say before. Because of disobedience back in the garden of Eden, God cursed the ground, the serpent, women and men. Here's what every woman has Eve to thank for: Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. (Genesis 3:16) You've probably noticed that the pain in childbearing hasn't changed...well...neither has that other pain. Now here are the specific verses dealing with women teaching in the church: 1 Corinthians 14:34-35 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. 1 Timothy 2:11-14 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. Remember, culture isn't the point. The curses fell upon men and women long before our unique cultures developed. So what are the real issues here in these verses? Obedience. Learning. Subjection. Usurping Authority. Notice how Paul puts it in the second verse. He says, “But I suffer not a woman to teach...” He didn't allow it. That's not the same as “Thus saith the Lord...” Anyway, here's my take on things: According to the scriptures woman are to be subject to their husbands. If a husband doesn't want their wife to speak or teach in church, they shouldn't. Period. But what does that say about the husband...? Some of the greatest spiritual truths I've learned have come from women. God has used wonderful women to pray with me, give me godly advice, and to tell me what I've needed to hear - not just in private conversation, but in the church. Treating others the way I want to be treated should start with my marriage. If I want to be used of God, shouldn't I allow for my wife be used of God too? If obedience and subjection are the key issues, how does that change if a husband gives all the liberty to his wife he allows for himself and others? It changes everything. I'm not talking about asking endless questions - like some of us men can do - but if a woman has the gift of prophecy, teaching or exhortation, why not give her room to edify the church? "But Pat, you don't know my husband. He's a obstinate jerk." Then why did you marry him? If submission to your husband seems difficult, then consider how the Creator of the Universe took on the form of a servant, and humbled himself to his own creation. He submitted to Joseph and Mary, the laws of God and man and even the butchery of crucifixion. He's the example we need to follow. Wives submitting to husbands is absolutely biblical. So is the command for men to love their wives. I think a man can show great love to both his wife and to the church by allowing her to teach and preach if he sees that God is with her. Was this interesting or helpful? Please "Like" it below and pass it along! CommentsAberra 02/20/2011 10:45
Fantastic. Why Paul emphatically instructed to the church of Ephesus and Timothy? In my opinion especially these two places where the message was sent to them are one place which is Ephesus. Paul has sent the message to Timothy while Timothy was in Ephesus and epistle of Timothy while Timothy was in the same place Ephesus. Why paul repeatedly sending similar message in two different letters? In my opinion, Ephesus is a city of Artemus, Diana, goddess. In this city there might be the superiority of females because of the goddess. Even I had been read one upon a time an article which says: "Females are creator because of a capacity of giving a birth" That is why paul making an apologetic: who was the first to be fallen? Who was the first to be created? A man or a woman? Anyways, here is an additional question: Why Paul didn't deal in other epistles about this issue? Still I want to be clear on this issue! Love and respect,
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02/20/2011 10:56
Aberra - Tekle,
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Lori Boggs 02/21/2011 09:58
As difficult as it is to hear, or read for that matter, you write the truth. I stumble all the time with this, I tend to be a little headstrong and independent ;-) which is fine in many areas, but absolutely not in the following of Christ. I believe many women offer important ministries in and out of Church. I cringe however, when women are in high authority within the Church, especially as Priests or Pastors because it is definitely not condoned by the Bible. Women in Old and New Testament times are called to ministry in so many different ways. They were and still are so important in God's work. None of what you referenced should make any woman feel like they are not allowed to minister in many ways, there are just a few ways that it is unacceptable. I liked your post, my hackles were riled for only a moment and then just because I continue to struggle with this. Good Job Pat!
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Alicia 02/22/2011 10:01
Pat,
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Allen Kirk 03/04/2011 08:17
Brother Pat,
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03/04/2011 09:46
Allen,
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Allen Kirk 03/06/2011 18:41
Pat,
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Allen Kirk 03/06/2011 18:50
a gathering. I also want to point out that the scripture does not require complete silence (there is nothing forbids the sister from participating in singing in worship to the Lord for example) but silence is required in that matter of speaking. I believe your understanding of submission certainly is causation for Paul’s direction but it is not limited in that regard. Timothy makes clear that they are not to teach the men on this occasion due to the authoritative nature of teaching. It would seem that the authority of the God-head is respected and represented on this occasion that as Christ is subject and under submission to the Father so should a wife be to her husband. I was with a group of believers who enjoyed mutual participative worship that had the belief that women could not teach in their assembly but they were allowed to ask questions. On the occasion of my visit one of the elders of the congregations happened to be addressing some concerns that happened to be centered on inappropriate conduct he felt was being engaged in by some of the sisters and one of the good sisters began to ask questions along the lines of “If the bible says we have liberty who are you to tell us….?” She never made a statement of fact but she dressed him down sternly in front of the whole congregation with her questions. That interaction which includes the opportunity to ask questions existed with our early day brethren is clear to me but Paul’s instructions to the sisters was that if they had questions they were to take them home and ask them of their husbands. Again my experience has been, in discussions with those that allow their sisters to speak “in the churches” that most times they believe that they have adequate reasoning to make an exception to the rule. Often times it is cited how their sisters are less talkative, or how they may only be permitted to speak if their husband is present and permissive, or how they are only allowed to speak under certain circumstance or on special occasions, but they have no requirement for “a woman… to be in silence”. I have no reservations with regards to your notice that we have much to gain from our sisters and I too have learned many valuable lessons from my sisters that I would not want to be without. Just as you’ve indicated that your stand on marriage to unbelievers has been accompanied by personal accusations rather than an attempt to be agreed in the truth we too have had to endure accusations of bigotry and arrogance which is unfortunate to me. I cannot speak for the Lord as to all the reasons this “silence” requirement is made of us, but I can say with confidence that the bible instructs the brethren in Corinth and the evangelist Timothy to require the sisters to remain silent in the matter of teaching when they are gathered for their appointed assembly. And again, we have seen all manner of abuses in many denominations soon after choices were made to allow a woman to speak on a “special occasion” when she became the priest or pastor that would speak on every occasion. I would ask the same question I did with the unequally yoked issue… once you choose one exception on what authority can you limit all exceptions?
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EE Barkley 04/22/2011 13:05
Since there are numerous accounts in the NT about women in ministry and even one of the 20+ apostles being a woman, there really is no dispute over women taking a part in the fellowship ministry. They must participate; as they are a part of HIS Body who must act in moving under & with the HOLY Spirit’s anointing to prophecy, to sing songs & hymns and to do what ever else the BOSS wants, the Holy Spirit.
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Pastor Carter 05/23/2011 22:34
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Pastor Carter 05/23/2011 22:57
Thank you so much for taking the time and reading, blessings upon all that you do in the Lord..
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